I would like to preface this post with a caveat and dispel any preconceived notions that "giving" (or any random act of kindness, for that matter) is easy. Actually, I take that back. A random act of kindness probably IS easier, for the simple fact that it is just that: random. But I am finding that this 29 Gift project is hard!
Admittedly, I am really trying to challenge myself in each of my "gives" and perhaps that is why I am finding it difficult to maintain awareness of opportunities where I might be of service to others. For the most part, I consider myself a pretty friendly person; I smile at strangers regularly, I often hold doors open for people and I tend to wave a parade of cars in front of me when I'm driving (to a fault, because I've had impatient drivers behind me lay on the horn in my efforts to let people into traffic - sheesh). But in my quest to participate in this challenge, I don't want to rely on everyday gestures as my "gifts", because these are things I would do on any given day. So that's where I'm having trouble; I want my gifts to be purposeful, beneficial, with intent for the greater good...and creative, when they can be.
When I wake up in the mornings and start my day, I'm often praying as I'm getting ready (I know, that's pretty sad, huh? I really need to work on setting aside uninterrupted time specifically for prayer and devotion), asking God for His help in keeping my eyes, ears and heart open for opportunities to do good. I want to be especially mindful and present so that my gives don't fall rote or forced in their intent.
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My gift for Day 5 was $10.
See this?
The price you pay for gasoline here on Maui. And it fluctuates nearly every day; it's been on an upward trend in the last two weeks, with predictions of hitting $5.00/gallon late this year. Awesome.
As I waited in line to pay to fill up my tank, I noticed the woman in front of me. Seemingly frazzled, she was balancing a toddler on her hip and a sippy-cup in her left hand, while counting out a handful of change with the other. "I need to get upcountry and I only have $1.74. Can I just get that much in gas? I lost my wallet." For those who are curious, depending on where exactly "upcountry" she lived, it was easily 15-20 miles from where we were. And $1.74 would only buy her fumes.
At that moment, Gift #5 presented itself. I handed the cashier a ten dollar bill and said: "Better make that $11.74". The woman turned to me with a look of relief and a flood of thanks. She gave me a hug which I gladly accepted, because HUGS ARE GOOD!
Today's Gratitude List:
1) Recent blog awards!
2) The simple joy and abundance of fresh fruit: healthy and clean eating. Today's pear was one of the best I've had in a long time!
3) Another "checking in" text from my beautiful friend, Noa (thank you, Love!)
That was a great gift! What a difference that made in her day:)
ReplyDeleteI love that! It's crazy that we all don't help each other out more in situations like that. I bet that $10 comes back to you multiplied!
ReplyDeleteyou seriously might be one of the best people i have ever known... and we haven't even met!! you are such an inspiration and i'm so beyond glad we are blogging friends! thank you for the motivation and inspiration dear!
ReplyDeleteAngie! You always make my eyes water (in a good way). There really needs to be more people like you in the world. I should take part of that back... I know there IS people like you in the world they just need their eyes opened. You are doing that. I'm sure that woman will now do something good for someone else just because. You're wonderful, you really are!
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Kate
I absolutely love your series...thank you for sharing ideas of kindness and giving. You have a beautiful heart.
ReplyDeleteAwesome!
ReplyDeleteOh Angie, I loved reading this! Some of us were talking the other day about being nervous to have kids because of all the evil in the world. It's people like you, who not only do these acts of kindness on a bit larger scale, but that smile at people and open their doors that makes me feel like there is alot of good left. You are so special, Angie! I can tell you have charity in your heart at all times.
ReplyDeleteHi Angie, You are so right! It is hard to think of intentional giving on a daily basis. Like you, I'm pretty laid back about letting people with a few things to check out step in front of me, sitting back to allow people to merge in traffic, opening doors, etc. I think it comes from a place of being grateful that I have the time that allow simple gestures of kindness. I also give every time the Upward Foundation calls, United Food Bank sends a request, etc. etc. It is all so easy to do because they are coming to me...I don't have to look for a place or person in need. 29 Gifts challenges me to be aware of where my gestures and gifts will impact a life. I'm not just a passenger in this; I have to drive the car. It is a good challenge and I am grateful for it, so again, Thank you, thank you, thank you for introducing me. And wow! What a God moment for you and the lady at the gas station. {Squeal} I would love to have that kind of opportunity present itself :-))) ~ Blessings, Janet
ReplyDeleteWhat a great gift! You are an inspiration to others of how we should be acting in our daily lives.
ReplyDeletePoekitten: Thanks for visiting!
ReplyDeleteAshley: I think so many people aren't quick to jump in and help because we are all so accustomed to cynical, doubtful behaviors. You know? Like, what did she do wrong that put her in that predicament? I don't know if that makes sense (it does in my head!). I just really try to trust my instincts; for the most part, they're spot-on.
Sam I Am: Thank you so much for the awfully nice things you wrote...you're very sweet! I hope that we DO get to meet in person someday!
Kate: Katie-Love, you are too kind; thank you for always coming to visit, for taking the time to comment and for always having THE nicest things to say. I hope you realize just how much of an inspiration YOU are...to me, to your readership and the world! Keep spreading your sunshine, sweetie.
ruthy ann: thank you. :)
Daniele: :) Thanks!
Shalyn: Hi sweet girl...just like Sam and Kate, you are always so full of kind, positive and uplifting words. Thank you for always coming by to share the love. Much love to you, friend. xoxo.
Janet: I'm so glad that you're doing this along with me, so that we can share our thoughts with one another...it's hard, isn't it?! I am constantly "searching" all day for the right situation to present itself.
"I'm not just a passenger in this; I have to drive the car"
I love your choice of words here - so very true!
I look forward to reading your latest updates...have a wonderful week. xoxo.
Ross: Thank you! Did you pick up your book yet? :)
That is beautiful. Your gift to that woman is surely one that will follow her in life.
ReplyDeleteWow, and we complain in NY about the prices of gas. You pay more, yikes!!!